Since there is a plan to propose to his girlfriend, then “calculate before the battle, the more wins” need to achieve a certain victory in this battle requires a certain plan and strategy, then the author combines the views of users on the Zhihu forum to come Talk about the proposal of marriage.
We need to pay attention to “Those who don’t fully understand the harm of using soldiers can’t fully understand the benefits of using soldiers.” If you don’t know the importance of this matter, then you will not know the importance of this matter to your future married life. This seems to be a sacred and representative first step towards marriage for girls.
Choose a venue to “survey the terrain and deploy tactics.” If you can, please don’t propose marriage in public places where there are many strangers. In the eyes of girls, they will be a little bit persecuted, and they will feel embarrassed even if they can’t hold back their face to refuse. And if it is rejected, it is also very sad and shameful. It is more suitable in a girl’s home or a place where you are alone.
Gifts are very important. Please don’t take men’s hobbies to women’s hobbies, but do your best. “Being against the enemy and making good use of our forces” This battle requires us to choose some flowers, masonry rings. But you still have to look at your own pockets~ But please don’t give away any of the following: money, games, books, clothing…
The surrounding personnel still need to fight one-on-one in this battle. Although the art of war says “ten to encircle, five to attack, double to fight, the enemy can be divided, if there is less, you can escape, if you don’t, you can avoid it. Therefore, if the enemy is strong, the big enemy can be captured.” But it is still impractical for girls, so if it can be one-on-one, it is better.
Fully grasp the art of war, know the victory of the war and the unstoppable, so you must have full confidence and hope, know whether this battle can be carried out under the circumstances that it can go or not, if you are not fully sure, it may be Even friends didn’t even have to do it.
Parents agree that after all, your marriage is not a matter for one person, but also for the whole family. Therefore, you have to discuss with your parents and confirm that the prospective daughter-in-law is the person approved by the parents. In this case, make a marriage proposal and support it with strong back strength. , To achieve “the one with the same desire wins!”